The best thing I ever did for myself was to take a writing class. Clinging to the first oh-so-raw draft of my fantasy novel,  I waded in among the penners of memoir and poetry and took my first public beating. In truth,  they went easy on me. But I did learn things- amazing and wonderful things. Then came National Novel Writing Month and the venture into Book Country. Since I frittered away my youth (stupid law degree),  I spend my writing time carefully.  I make a lot of stuff up (ie,  less research).  I make jokes,  some of which are,  if I may say so,  funny.  I create heroes and heroines who always find a way and villains who get what they deserve.  I like stories where people overcome the odds,  that show people at their best in the worst circumstances,  A Tale of Two Cities comes to mind.  Happy endings,  but also the right ending. And stories with imagination,  naturally.